August 23, 2007
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	updateMatt: The crying has stopped. He was never crying, I mean me. Matt loves school so far. Of course it's only been two days and no classes yet, but still, good start. In the VERY brief E mail I got, the roommate is nice, does not seem to be a psychopath, and I think he left the racoon at home. Jennie: Had a mild melt down about 1) her weight ( which is fine) 2) South Africa anxiety 3) missing her boyfriend while she is in South Africa. I think she's fine now. She got an email from study abroad, and they said among other things, if your homosexual keep it to yourself, and that when she is at her rural homestay, there will be no running water, no working toilet ( hole/outhouse? ) no electric. On my bathroom floor is an National Geographic and malaria article the big killer in where else? Aids, Malaria, Homophobia, what more could a parent want for their child's study abroad experience? I got a letter today from them reminding us that contact will be limited and visits ( like I could afford that) are discouraged as the students are to immerse themselves in the culture and their " new" families. Ben: Is on his way to college. He did not make it to see the judges on AI. Last years show choir boy, you know the kid with the un-supportive parents who forgot his lines in Hollywood, made it through AGAIN. I have heard both boys sing live and a mistake was made. But whatever. Expunge: Is fine, I told him it was ok to cry about Matt and he looked at me like I was crazy, but got teary eyed when dropping Matt off. He is getting a side job at a nail salon. Here he is practicing on Jennie. She had asked me to do it, but expunge is more eye hand coordinated than me. It was the first time he had done nails, but he wanted the cuticle thing and everything. I was impressed. It was cute until Jennie spilled nail polish remover on the table. It takes off wood finish too, in case you were wondering. Me: I'm getting out of my funk and starting to look forward to my empty nest again. Although next week, when Jennie goes, I am sure my funk will return. I was put into a different classroom at work, so far so good. In other news at work, I have heard the urine throwing turned into poop throwing. One of the staff is suing for discrimination because she got sent home for her pants being too tight. I guess they were really tight in the crotch, umm yeah. She will lose though because another staff who wears an eye patch, also got sent home because he had a rip in the crotch of his pants and had his legs spread in front of a supervisor. I guess she saw his package. So obviously they don't discriminate. Our very own Mary Kay is pleading not guilty, even though the boy was found in her closet and both confessed to police that they had sex. Miss M and I found her on fuggly.com. She is unattractive, but that was sort of mean. So that's the scoop. I will try and respond to comments and will try to read all your sites, it's been a long time, but it might be limited until Jennie leaves. Thanks for all the supportive messages. Your all great! 

 
						
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Tell me when I do begin to enjoy the empty nest?? Two of mine left on Tuesday. One (16) still at home.
*sigh*
So is expunge a nail tech? I am a little confused!.............
Jennie will be fine, actually she will prolly grow and mature in more ways than most kids will ever know this year, wonderful opportunity! .........You have raised great kids, great values, and now they will experience the real world and make tons of new friends..........ugh.............this almost sounds like a Hallmark card sorry! 
 
But I do mean it, it will be a huge adjustment, but hang in there.........the best is yet to come!
ugh Hallmark...........what's wrong with me?
loml told me he was having allergy issues when we dropped SD off the first time
I understand your pain... I still feel it every day
Hang in there re: the kids.
Do you think he would come do my toenails? ...LOL....It still hurts a bit to bend that far over after my surgery...so I can't get this old polish off and do new polish....
Glad you are feeling a bit btter...
i'm thinking of you sweet one!!!
Try to keep your chin up. I can imagine it is hard to not have the kiddos at home, and especially hard when one of them is SO far away....but try to enjoy the time to yourself. Sending hugs your way.
No toilet? She's a brave one. No thanks for me, I prefer to be civilized.
Hang in there. She'll do fine and have an experience she'll never forget. She's so gorgeous too.
OMG.. I'd be going INSANE.
I know.. that's no help, huh?
((((((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
Matt's just going to have to give a few more details in his emails to you. Maybe a roommate was reading over his shoulder or something.
what a busy life you are living. I can not imagine my daughter going off to college. She is a junior and I have 2 whole years before it happens - lol.
I know it will be here before I turn around.
Hang in there mom, and here is a (((hug))) for you.
~Cookie~
Hey if it is any consolation my niece went to South Africa to study her midwifery for 3 to 4 months and came back home in great shape. She did a weblog of her experiences. I would let you look at but I don't know if you understand Dutch. See my niece is my niece by marriage and she lives in the Netherlands. But she did have a great experience and you can imagine what she was exposed to as a midwife. Good luck with all you have going on .
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Hang in there...I can imagine how difficult it must be to have both your children out of the house.
Matt's emails sound like my son's. Just a quick hi, things are good and that's it. Moms need details, so thank goodness we have daughters who give them to us! I am excited for Jennie, even though it sounds kind of scary, it will be the experience of a lifetime for her. Love the look of concentration on expunge's face! LOL!
I know that "funk". I usually cure it by having my hair done. Even if it doesn't need cut, I just have them "fix-it" for me. Hang in there.
That pic of expunge doing Jennie's nails cracked me up! Gotta give him credit, though! Sounds like work is more the same... I don't know how you do it!
I had a hard time just sending mine off on her eleventh 1st day of school...... LOL... I'll definitely be a basket case when she goes off to college, I think if she were going off somewhere like SA, I'd be scheming ways to fit inside her bag. Surprise, Mama decided to come along too!!! My best friends son made it through the 1st round of AI eliminations..... I'm excited for him, I just may have to watch the whole season this year.
  My best friends son made it through the 1st round of AI eliminations..... I'm excited for him, I just may have to watch the whole season this year. 
Wow, what an adventure you guys are having! Peace be with you.
Stay strong - and know that there are people out here who support you and care. Parenting is never easy, huh? I can already feel how sad I will be when one of mine leaves home. And it will happen. Sigh.
Awe, a little empty nest syndrome? You're right it's OK to cry.
mine send me text messages & i.m. me, both are already looking for money....nice, real nice!
I dropped my oldest off at college last august. It was the hardest thing I ever did. I adjusted...slowly... ok I still have issues, but it does get easier.
Ducky says "cool layout" -- Glad the funk is passing and he doesn't have to room with a racoon. I'm sure Jennie will be just fine and unfortunately ~ I was aware that nail polish remover takes off wood finishes. :sigh:
   Glad the funk is passing and he doesn't have to room with a racoon. I'm sure Jennie will be just fine and unfortunately ~ I was aware that nail polish remover takes off wood finishes. :sigh:
Do what you can, I'll keep coming back!
I know everyone commented on the two leaving.... so I won't however I will comment on the too tight pants, we call that a camel toe and yuk gross.
I hope work is good this year it will help while you are you know missing the chicks.
Take care of yourself. Peace.
oh I am feeling for you and thinking about you. You have a gorgeous vibrant family who loves you..and that us a tribute to you as a great mom who can now get to know the morethan amomkindof woman that you are! You really do rock and you know this!
I'm sorry that your nest will be empty I have two I could spare if you would like! Just kidding.  Each day will get a little easier and reading your post made me think of my kids.  My oldest will be turning 18 next month so I know he will be leaving eventually and my daughter is 16 so....geesh the time flies!  You are in my thoughts and Blessings!
   Just kidding.  Each day will get a little easier and reading your post made me think of my kids.  My oldest will be turning 18 next month so I know he will be leaving eventually and my daughter is 16 so....geesh the time flies!  You are in my thoughts and Blessings!
Personally, I prefer to learn about places without electricity, water, or toilets from as far away as possible.
Great update. I missed ya!!!! So glad to see you are getting out of the funk. Glad Matty won't be killed in his sleep by the roommate (BubblyJr would be crushed...lol)... (by the way, he is SO cute, that pic on him without a shirt, very adorable.)
I'm glad Jennie is not a lesbian....but if she were, I guess its lovely that they warned her... hate to wander over thinking it was going to be cool.... No running water... ugh... I really look forward to hearing updates from her..... will she get to email you and stuff? Ever?? I think that would be cool, to just post her emails for us, if they were appropriate. You could always take out personal stuff... that would be neat.
It seems you have raised great kids.
They both have a sense of direction in their lives.
All will be fine & I hope you'll get out of your funk quickly after Jennie leaves & stay out of it. Funks are no fun.
Take care. [:
I miss your blogs. ;P
Wow, I can relate. Except I sold the house and moved in with my sister, her husband, 9year old niece and twin boy and girl that are starting Kinder. (1 year 1/2 ago) It's going great here...never a dull moment.
My one and only tried the dorms (Walk-in closet with windows), his freshman year, on campus apartment (somewhat bigger, but stil small)during summer and now he's in a 3 bedroom 2 bath (one all for himself) apartment off campus, with two great roommates. Starting his 2nd year. All the roomies are working at a deli on campus...they car pool. Have met the parents....they are nice.
All in all, going well. Sounds as though all of your kiddos are away....do you have pets? At least your profession will keep giving you material for the Xanga blog....hang in there girl.....
You'll be OK. My mom was probably just as upset when she left me at college, but eventually adjusted. Actually she probably did better with me away at a dorm than she would have done if I stayed at home and commuted and come home super late every evening (as my brother found out).
Kids do seems to grow up, move out....and mostly, do fine....although my son still calls me when he's sick...Did I tell you that before??? the first thing to go is your memory.....
Just me and the crickets here, its been an empty nest here on sundays but that used to be the day I could get out....
I wonder if my ex was sad when her charges left the apt? I guess even though the job seemed like it would never end, it ends and you miss it....
Hmm, maybe expunge can do your nails?
There's that term again, camel toe. Ick! As with everything, this past week I've not been such a good Xangan with my responses and such due to this god-awful Chicken Pox. Who knew you could get it (again) at 26 years old. Anyway I just wanted to stop by and say howdy and wish you a Happy Monday!
- Bek
glad you are feeling "better" with the situation!
love the ugly lady and eye patch guy recap. It made my day. In that weird, twisted way that I am.
  It made my day. In that weird, twisted way that I am.
Mom, this is my travel blog! Yay!!!!!!
Your little birds have grown up and are ready to fly- oh, mama, it will be okay. You did a good job raising them; they know how to fly! Still, I can guess it must be very hard (I'm not there yet); so here's hugs- Lisa
You're great, too! You will do ok Mom-just takes some getting used to. Can Expunge help me with my cuticle problem?!
Understood... completely.
Hugs, Tricia
well I cant run mine off with a BB Gun.......I can loan you a few kids until you feel better....
"Boy summer guest"...a friend of my daughter's needed a place to stay for the summer until he left for college. we are still waiting for him to leave BUT he decided he would stay in town for school.....he is not packing, we are getting his mail, he eats me out of house and home. I think he thinks we may not notice that he is still here...after all, we do have 6 kids...whats one more?
and did I tell you that I am going to be a grandma...aggghhhhhh. yep...
on a serious note.....hang in there mamma......Matt and Jen will be just fine. you have done a great job as a mom. They are smart kids.....I know you are proud.
when I sent my daughter to Europe (nothing close to Afica), I couldnt eat, sleep, work...i just paced the floors for 2 weeks ....I ended up with a set of sore feet. she made it there, had a great experience and made it back home safely and I made myself sick. so i have a understanding of what your going through....worry yes...its normal but save your feet and dont make yourself sick. you have a huge support group. I will be praying for you and yours.
Oh LAura I dont know why but I thought of you for a sec when I saw this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VlY8STkhopc..its great for any mom and its also mercifully short but FUNNY...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VlY8STkhopc
trying again!
Laura delete my first link please its wrong but the second one is funny.I hope Jennie got off safe and sound..I hope you are okay..hugs
Thinking of you. What a traumatic week you've had, saying goodbye to Matt and Jennie. Hoping your funk passes. Try not to worry too much, just think of all the tales they will keep you amused with over the Xams dinner table. The time will fly by lady *hugs*
Hey...your emotions are so normal. I cried my eyes out when mine went off to Kindergarten & again when my youngest went off to college 4 years ago. She just graduated a month ago & is home now...now I wondering when she'll leave again!!! Beleive me, the empty nest stuff will pass...it takes awhile, but it does get better, especially when they end up living back in your house & thinking they are all grown up & don't have to listen to ma & pa anymore! I think nature plans it this way so that they don't stay permanently 
  
(((hugs))) to you...it will get better & I know with all the good thoughts your daughter is going to be just fine. Can't wait to hear all the updates.
Whoa, you have a dramatic life. I'd have been committed long ago. Kudos to you.
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