June 29, 2009

  • why I think Michael Jackson did molest those kids: My Theory

    When I was in Jr. high I had a friend named Beth.  Beth and I had a lot of sleep oversWe did all kinds of fun things at our sleep overs.  We made prank calls ( before caller ID.) We streaked naked through the neighborhood because there was a popular song called the streak,  and we stole our parents booze and cigarettes.  We also looked at my dad's playboy and read parts out of The Happy Hooker.  Beth had  some experience with boys, I had none.  Either way, eager to practice, for when we got real boyfriends we kissed at sleep overs too.  One time we even felt each other up.  Poor Beth got the raw end of the deal though, since my boobs were about as big as my 4 year old brothers.
     

    I wasn't attracted to Beth and I definitely liked boys.  In fact, even if I liked girls that way, I don't think Beth would have been my type.  But basically I made out with her and felt her up anyway.  I never thought much of it and later in life I found out boys did similar things.  Although it seemed like boys were a lot grosser, with their circle jerks and what not.  And I heard of boys showing each other how to masturbate and things that I would have never done with Beth, even if she asked. 

    Now you may be wondering what on earth that has to do with my theory.  I'm getting to that. 

    From what I hear most child molesters are 1) sexually attracted to children and 2) get off on the power and were most likely molested themselves.

    That never really fit Michael Jackson from what I could see and it seemed he genuinely loved his little friends and was sincere when he said he wouldn't hurt a child.  Although, I would not be surprised to learn he had been molested at some point in his life.  He was definitely abused and used by his father.

    But if you go back and read what the kids said happened with Michael , you could see it happening.   Why?  Because Michael Jackson did not think of himself as an adult.  When he had children over and had little boys sleep in his bed, it was just like any very rich 12 year old having another kid sleep over.  They watched videos and jumped on the bed, and giggled.  They played video games together and probably ordered pizza.

    But some of the boys said they sometimes watched dirty movies together and there was some fondling going on.  He was never accused of rape, it always sounded like two adolescent boys experimenting.

    Except Michael wasn't a little boy, he was a grown man.  And if you listen to him in interviews, he really didn't get that.  Against ALL advice from everyone he refused to stop sleeping in the same bed as little boys.  Even when he was married to Lisa Marie, he told Diane Sawyer he would not deny a child to sleep in his bed, with him, if they wanted to.

    I don't think Michael believed he was hurting those boys.  I think he thought he was having fun with his friends. 

    The man was emotionally 12 years old.  I think he was as sweet and shy and generous as everyone says.  He was amazingly talented.  And he was big time screwed up.

    Even his whole dangling his baby off the balcony thing?  I could see an immature boy doing something like that.  I don't think Michael's frontal lobe ever developed. 

    So I don't think he was a child molester in the classic sense of what we normally think we know about child molesters, but I do think he molested those kids.  I don't think he was attracted to little boys, I believed him when he said he didn't think of kids like that, but I still think there was touching going on and porn watching and drinking.  And I think Michael was just recreating what he never had when he was 12.

    So there you have it, my theory.  No disrespect to an icon, some of you asked so I told ya. 

    I welcome opinions, especially if you agree.

     

Comments (76)

  • wow... that's a pretty impressive theory! and I think that I have to agree. It makes complete sense to me. You are so smart!!

  • That's pretty much what I think as well.

  • Holy moley... that actually makes since.. I never thought of it that way!!!!

  • He said in that interview with Martin Bashir "I am Peter Pan". Bashir said "No, you're Michael Jackson" and MJ replied "In my heart I am Peter Pan". So, I think you may be right, in some ways. He may not have molested those boys in the way we think of when we think of the traditional pedaphile. He was a grown man, totally f'd in the head, who didn't want to grow up. But remember the investigator who said that MJ had an alarm that would trigger if anyone came down the hall to his bedroom? That shows that he knew that whatever activity he may have been engaged in with those boys was wrong, and he didn't want to be caught at it.

  • I know you generally like to avoid outright controversy on your site so I won't say what I think.  No need to rehash it anyway

  • Wow, interesting theory...

  • @villainwasright - yep

    @ThePraisedOne - thanks, I'm glad people get what I was saying

    @madamzephyrus - THANKS!  That's exciting ( that someone thinks I'm smart)

    @LucyWrites - great minds and all that

    @ImUrKarma - yay! So glad you get it.  Sometimes I never know if I'll be understood on here

    @WakeUpLaughing - Very true

    @radicalramblings - it could havwe been fun, but yeah I'm stressed so thanks for the controversial avoidence.

    @lifeatrandom - thanks

    @lizbeth62 - I know

  • I think you could be right.

  • Very intersting point...

  • I was going to mention the hallway alarm too.He knew damn well what he was doing was wrong.

    And he did it again, even though he made a 20 million plus payout the first time the authorities were called.

    Pop icon, perhaps, but he'll always be a child molester to me.

  • @Erika_Steele - I know I am : )

    @CiaoBella810 - thanks

    @Bricker59 - I agree, he did know what he was doing was wrong,I just think his motivation was different than other child molesters.  I did NOT mean to imply it was okay.

  • i would say something like. leave him alone. hes dead. have some respect. but i liked the first part of the blog too much so ill just say. nice blog. 

  • that's exactly the point i was trying to make on another blog with my comment. if you have a 14 year old boy and a 12 year old boy experimenting sexually, is it child abuse because the 14 year old is older? (that was rhetorical, btw. ) i just don't think he ever matured emotionally beyond a young boy. i think you hit the nail on the head again, Laura.

  • I never got into his music so I didn't pay much attention to him, but your theory sounds good.  About the alarm, some people know that other people think something is wrong but they may just try to avoid being caught and not believe it is really wrong.  Like people speeding on the highway.  It is wrong, but people do it until the radar detector goes off!  Like lies, it seems like people lie so much that they even lie to themselves.  Like steeling, lots of people take things from their workplace that they shouldn't.

  • This is a very interesting perspective.  

  • I couldn't have said it as well...

    but I've thought the same thing.

  • I've never thought of it that way, but it makes sense. 

  • That's a pretty well-thought out theory.  I've never even thought of it that way.

  • Maybe it's because I was a quiet, introverted kid that lived out in the middle of the boonies, but I never had those experiences as a kid with my friends.  I didn't even know that was common.  Not being judgemental, just sort of surprised I suppose.  Interesting.

  • Wow. That makes SO much sense. I'm really glad that I read this blog because I've never thought of it that way, and it really helps to better understand the human psyche when you explore these kinds of things in a new, better light. Thanks for posting this!

  • Interesting perspective I never would have thought of. I wouldn't have because I never had those sorts of experiences with anyone and really didn't know that happens until I was well into adulthood.

    Your theory does make sense.

  • I never experienced those sort of things when I was that age but then I was kind of a loner at that point anyway. I think this theory is very good. I also agree with drwarrior.. he probably knew that other people thought what he did was wrong but he may have felt there was nothing wrong with it.

    He lived a strange life. In some ways he was indulged beyond anyone's wildest dreams but in other ways, his life was very much unfulfilled. I honestly think I will know more unconditional love in my life than he ever did. I can't imagine what it would be like to stuck in a spotlight when I was five years old and told to perform. I think it would have terrified me.

  • Definitely plausible.

  • That's a very interesting perspective. I haven't thought of it like that before. It is, however, nothing beyond an explanation. It does not even belong slightly in the realm of "excuse".

  • @kkraziemoonn - thnaks, and I'm really NOT picking on him, he is dead, but some people asked what my theory was, so I told them.

    @coletteatsea - WE are just too smart!  Of course Michael was much older than 14 and that was the problem.

    @drwarrior - good point

    @TakingxOverxMe - thanks

    @kellykk1973 - It's good to know other people in this world think the same things ( sometimes I feel like I'm crazy) which is why xanga is so great!

    @SimplyNita - thanks

    @InkBlotBlog - I've thought about this for years ( even before he died) I am fasinated with people and Michael Jackson was someone I wanted to kind of figure out.

    @thechris38 - I don't think it's talked about much, I am even embarassed 37 years later about the friend thing

    @striemmy - or not

    @MomentsEssentiels - THANKS!  I love exploring the human psyche, definitely an amature shrink in the real world.

    @sanfranmami - not all kids did/do but it's very common.

  • @inadee - Right on the money, poor Michael, very sad.

    @gottobereal64 - I'll take plausible

    @sometimerainbow - not excuse, you're right.

  • Straight young men dont kiss each other or teach each other to masturbate. I'd be surprised to see a statistic state that something like that might even be remotely common.

    I'm undecided about whether or not Michael is guilty of those accusations. Alot of people have said "where there is smoke there is fire". That rule generally does not apply when there is something significant to gain, like tens of millions of dollars. Also, several times criminal investigations couldn't proceed because after recieving a settlement, his accusers refused to cooperate, even though a settlement in no way could require that of them.

    On the other hand, the man just wanted to be loved, it was that simple. Everything he did, to himself and for others, was so people would like him. It makes me wonder that if he thought a little kid wanted a hand job if he'd do it. 

  • I completely agree with your theory. I don't think he was a child molester, just think he still thought of himself of a child. If you listen to his "Childhood", you get an indepth look into his thoughts.

    But seriously... circle jerking????

  • Wow.  I never had sleepovers like that.  Must be something new.

    Michael?  He has passed away.  Leave him alone.

  • I agree. He was sort of 'frozen' at the age from which he couldn't grow up normally. In a way he had to be an adult at age 9, so he missed out on something. He didn't really understand how to act like a normal adult.
    I feel sad for him, for having such a strange life, being molested as a child and being way to famous at the end.
    Let it be an example for parents not to enter their children into 'idols' kind of show at a to young age. Also Britney Spears is an example of how fame can turn into something bad.
    The question if he really did molest the children? I am wondering...it also appeared like some people wanted to hurt him and get a lot of money...

  • I think you've hit the nail on the head.  It's interesting and highly plausible.  I wonder how this would have flown as a defensive strategy in court?  I'm sure there must be some psychiatrist that could give it a name.

    I think it's interesting that MJ's mother and children are supposedly included in his will, but not his dad.  I also find it interesting that even though he's outed his dad in public for the abuse, that his dad is everywhere in the media these days, also with the REVEREND Sharpton at his side.  (I think Sharpton's job is to put himself in front of the media at any opportunity.  Other than that, can anyone tell me anything he's ever done?)

  • I completely agree with your theory. That has been what I've thought all along.  As far as the alarm, if boys are doing that at 12, they don't want to be "caught" either, he just had the money to take the same elaborate measures that any boys (or girls) would want to be able to take if they had a way.  Michael Jackson was an amazing talent and really a great philanthropist, but unfortunately he was also mentally ill, I think.  He was definitely developmentally stifled.  It's sad that it had to be played out in the public eye. 

  • p.s.  I've never known of anyone to actually participate in a "circle jerk", but I do know that it happens...

  • Definitely an interesting perspective... but we won't ever know. I feel so bad for MJ though. How could a parent be promoting his work at his son's memorial? Ugh. Such distaste. I wouldn't be surprised if we could all blame this on stage dad aka Joe Jackson.

  • Yeah I agree with your theory.

  • You deserve a lot of props for this post.  I beleive that MJ wasn't emotionally "matured" as well. 

  • Thats a really good theory and I think it makes complete sense. I was still a child myself when he was supposedly molesting little boys and thus I don't really know much about it, but ever since I was old enough to get into his music and stuff, I could sense there was something not right about him mentally and emotionally. I wouldn't be surprised if your theory was actually true.

  • Can't excuse or "make light" of something very bad.  Maybe he did have mental issues, the facts are the facts and what he did was wrong, even if your theory was true, it was still VERY WRONG,  He was a grown man, even if he didn't want to see truth and grow up.  Frankly I don't want to try to figure out why he did what he did, and get into the head of a child molester...
    I just know it was wrong, and will never see him in the same light ever again.  What a "let down" he was, in regard to his personal life.

    Musically talented, but lacking character, morality and dignity and just plain common sense.  Not someone I look up to that's for sure.

  • @Uek - I think you would be surprised this culture is pretty homophobic so guys don't brag about stuff like that.

    @faustuosa - hey, I didn't say I did that or anyone I knew, I just heard a lot of boys do.  Ewww, but whatever, I thought it was one of those gross things guys do.

    @heart_beep - No it's not something new!!!!!!  Kids have experimented  sexually with same sex and opposite since the beginning of time. We are sexual beings.  I'm not saying it always goes far, it can just be an I'll show you mine if you show me yours, or looking at dirty pictures or whatever, but it's not like I just outed myself as a perverted freak.  You're pretty rude.   And just because someone has passed away does not mean you can't speak honestly about them.  It's not like his family reads this. 

    @Papilio_machaon - yes, people used Michael for his money too, but I think in this case, he was not being extorted.

    @fratmom - We'll never know, but maybe some lawyer will read this and we will hear another high profile case involving a Michael jackson type and they will use my theory.  I hope they call it the Laura defence.

    @gabby_sue - Yeah, no guys I know will admit to that either, but it must happen, people have talked about it for years.

    @killthoseclowns - that man is disgusting, he ruined that adorable little boy.

    @alayshaj - thanks

    @Secret_Qt - thank you

    @Persiankitty - thanks, I guess we'll never know though

    @glamourousmom - I was stating a theory, not making excuses.  As for making light of it, well I didn't think I was, although I tend to have a kind of dark wit sometimes.

  • I agree, though it's very sad for him...

  • That is actually one of the better theories I've heard regarding him, and it does make sense-I just never would have thought to think of it in that way.

  • Because of this theory of yours, everything makes sense about Michael Jackson. I strongly believe that what you have been said is right. Michael Jackson was abused by his father and he never grow up emotionally.

  • @buckeyegirl31 - thank you so much

    @buggage - thanks that makes me feel smart

  • I've never been that big of a fan of MJ, but I do believe how much changed in music he's done.  And being that big an icon, it's sad that everything you've said is making sense.  That it all boils down to something he cannot control (his emotional/psychological state of being, despite his fame and ingenuity.

  • i never thought of it like that, but i can kind of see that now....

  • I can't say I agree nor can I say I disagree but I do enjoy someone that will freely give a new perspective to think about. ~ mom

  • @gottalovebeauty - true, but then I guess all criminals etc...probably had a sad life

    @bradybunch07 - that was the goal if there was one for this blog.  Thanks

  • @mommachatter - thanks, I appreciate your comment

  • I never thought of it like that. Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this.

  • @trinity_heart - and thank you for commenting : )

  • I totally agree I believe he did.

  • @Ikwa - thanks for the comment

  • Dear Friend.... I cannot use your own experience as a theory for all others...

    I had tons of sleep overs and never did anything of the such - no dirty movies etc - I have never looked at a dirty movie - and it has nothing to do with religion - I am agnostic
    What I am trying to say is that we are all different and what may be normal to you is abnormal to me - I cannot imagine kissing another woman - I want to puoock etc...
    Child prodigies/geniuses on the whole are not what society considers normal - note many geniuses are considered today of having some mild form of autism...
    the same genes responsible for brilliance also makes one shy, introverted etc...

  • I have been thinking the same exact thing for years. That is exactly what children do since I have had similar experiences like I'll show you mine if you show me yours.  It's nice to hear that someone else feels the same way.

  • I believe he did do it, and everybody keeps making excuses for him. Jordan might be telling truth now, because maybe MJ paid him off good. But think about it what young adult gunna wanna admit MJ molested them, i'd lie and say he didnt too. what about the nude boy magazines 90% nude in MJ's master bedroom in a locked cabinet, what about him admitting sleeping with kids. He's a known liar, on televison he lied all the time, lied about his face work, said he only had done 2, and everybody sucks him off like he should be rewarded, he aint a kid ask any physcologist that clear behavior of pedaphiles, and i guarantee he molested children. Keep in mind also, with ALL the advice he got,he refused to stop sleeping with kids. Even if he thinks he is a teen, cause for some reason in his warped mind that illusion exists, it doesnt excuse the fact. If it did then most pedaphiles should be freed and praised too, cause i'm sure they have the same condition.

  • @mchlbarat76 - Thanks for the comment : )

    @James - I wasn't making excuses just a possible theory as to why I think he did it.  I thought I was pretty clear, guess not.

  • I think you're right. And I think Michael Jackson was very sad and obviously had some serious mental issues that no one was able to help him work through.  My husband's theory is that the reason there is no will is that his handlers basically didn't want him to make a will because they would have disagreed with who he left everything to.  I think he's right. And you're right! I'm surrounded by right-ness in this crazy crazy world!

  • @miss_order - I thought he did have a will, he didn't?  Yes, very sad life he led.

  • Interesting theory and I had a similar one, previously, but after reading up on the cases and remembering the plea to the public, Michael actually admitted that the charges made against him him were 'disgusting.' So he was able to acknowledge that the charges he had been presented with pretty vulgar. That means he understood that oral sex and fondling a minor was a huge 'no-no.'

     I mean...it is true that by 2004 he had been described as having the psyche of a 10 year old, but it could have been all those painkillers he was taking as in the Martin Bashir interview he seemed pretty different in that interview. Way different from how he had composed himself in other ones. 
    Either way, I think it's easy for people to claim that he is a pedo, because of his appearances and his all around 'eccentricness' so to speak. Real pedos who actually harm children would have targeted more than just 2-3 kids to be quite honest. Also, seeing how other kids had gotten paid other families would have popped up out of the woodwork. After the first case, I would have imagined that he would've taken these kids to a hotel, or somewhere else. It would have been just too stupid to do stuff like this in the same place 2x knowing that there was a possibility of a police raid with a search warrant. 

  • I think you are totally wrong if he would have done that then all of the kids would have pressed charges. that makes me so angry if you don't have all of the facts then don't say shit about Michael.he would never do that he loved to help children all he could even children that had illnesses so you people that say that fucked up shit about Michael Jackson need to lay the fuck off!!!!!!!!!!! 

  • I eventually came to this conclusion as well. But then I read where Liberache's (sp) lover had seen gay porn of boys on Michael's bedside table. Then I thought about the male friends he had who were close to his age like Brando's son. Then I remembered Michael mentioning in the Oprah interview that he thought the reason he surrounded himself with children was to make up for the fact that he didn't have a childhood of his own. Six months later, he was charged in the first molestation case. If he indeed was molesting that boy, then it was going on when he made that statement to Oprah. I've come to the conclusion that he was planting that seed in our minds just in case he ever did get caught. What I mean is that he was hoping we would conclude what you eloquently wrote above. While he was an incredibly talented man who I believe dearly loved his own children and would not harm them, like us all, he had a dark side. Unfortunately, he didn't curb it, but instead feed his particular vice and eventually manifested it. So, this is my ultimate conclusion.

  • i completely disagree, the boy who started the WHOLE molestation charges came out a month after mj died to tell everyone that it was all a lie. it was all over the news. the boys abusive father forced him to say those things for money, and the father made MILLIONS of dollars. people can be so brainwashed by stupid media. i knew it was a lie from the start. michael was not a child molester. never was, never will be. u all believe lies. he already knew wat he loved, WOMEN! he had sex with lisa marie already my god. he wasnt stupid he had  SOME  common sense. i blame the illuminati I HATE THOSE PEOPLE

  • Hell Nah....That Is All Wrong...No Offense To You But Michael Jackson NEVER Molested Children...If You Really Watch his Interviews Or Somethin You Will See That He Is Too Nice To Do All That Stuff...Just because He Liked Being With Children And Lost His Childhood Makes Him A Child Molester?!....The Man That Accused Him Just Wanted His Money....If Your Kid Was Molested Would You Even Ask For Money? I Wouldnt I Would Just Want That Motha Funka In Jail....He Was Caught On Tape And i Quote " This Man Is Going To be Humiliated Beyond Belief, He Will Not Believe What Is Going To Happen To Him, Beyond His Worst Nightmares...He Will Not Sell One More Record....If I Go Through With This...I Win Big Time.....I Will Get Everything I Want They Will Be Destroyed Forever..." If You Dont Believe Me That He Really Said That....See For Yourself Heres The Link http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZnubxWTWf_4&feature=related

    And Feel Free To Comment On This......RIP King Of Music ♥

  • i disagree, reason being, it's funny how people keep twisting he said he "slept in the bed" with these children, no he said he "shared his bed" there's a difference. He would say he let them sleep in his bed and he slept on the floor or in another room, yet everytime someone repeats it, they say "he slept in the bed with them"

  • ok so i am thinking how to put my thoughts after reading your rubbish theories.. being a fan for about 12 years nd i never cared about the molstation cases . the truth prevailed & the justice was given . let me just ask you who told you to give your theory on how to proove he was a molestor ... hellooo u urself said tht u were fondling ur frnd nd drinking  at innocent age so what appears to be great deal of careless parenting u are trying to match it up with michaels life u dont even know him as a person. half of these rumours are jst created to get the media frenzy going on & on about the king of pop. really i dnt care about ur theories but i took the pain to comment on this jst because people like me who alwys look for what REAL people have to say .. so i care about comments nd to make you feel tht u should be ashamed of this jsut to get hits on ur site u wsted ur time on this theory with no proof ( as if there is any ). but as michael said as long u will continue with ur lies i will continue with the truth!!!!

  • I mean this in the nicest way possible but...are you on drugs? how does her theory not make sense? Just because YOUVE never been through it?? You think people dont murder others just because YOUVE never been murdered? I mean really?? I think you should think about what youre going to type before you give everyone the impression that you do drugs.@sanfranmami - 

  • @Jinjinhana - I said her theory does make sense. Learn to read and hey, I do take Singulair for occasional allergies. Maybe that makes me

    Crazy!?

  • @Jinjinhana - And if that was your "nicest way possible" I'm really looking forward to your "meanest way possible" response! An opinion is just that, an opinion, not fact. Nice way to pick my argument and ask if I'm on drugs when I agreed with the post. Not going to justify anything else from this point on. Good riddance!

  • Well your story is very true to some point, except where you say he was a shy , generous boy. I guess you were fooled to.


    he was none of those things and did molest those boys knowing exactly what he was doing. He fooled me at first but I was on to him.
    he wasnt stupid, he wanted to fool his fans with that soft fake voice,with pretending he had a skin disease. he blotched his skin in sections so it looked like he had the disease. Man he was intelligent enough to fool everyone however the truth always prevails.
    So while I believe in your story and that is what you think, I knew him and he did everything for control and his own benefit. He cared nothing about children except to touch them. Pretending he was like peter pan, comeon  you believe that hog wash, that he really thought he was peter pan, think about it. He may have like the character however to use that for what he did was sad and didnt serve him justice.
    he was a liar and played with innocent people/fans
    i would also like to mention that he MISUSED  Gods gift. God sees all and maybe his life was his karma when you think about it. I also want to let you all know there is something else about to come out that the whole world will know about him.
    sorry but I was not taken in by this ungrateful pedophile 

  • @Dana - yep you got the whole picture, finally someone not worshiping him as God.

    He committed a bad sin and karma did come to him
    he fooled the public and knowing him the way I did, all his act including his "fake " voice was disgusting
    let me say this, the world is about to find out more. 

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