When Jennie was first talking about going to South Africa, we discussed the food issues. Jennie and I both thought she would lose a lot of weight there because the food would be gross. Then we learned you are force fed. We weren't too worried because we figured they would be too poor to have a lot of food.
Yesterday Jennie called me from her rural homestay. Actually, I was shocked she got any reception since there is no electric or flush toilets. Obviously there is a cell phone tower though. Which I think is odd.
The first thing she told me was her "diet" was shot at the rural homestay. She informed me that not only were you not allowed to have leftovers, due to no refrigeration
, ( not to mention it's rude) you also got fed way too much. This might be okay for a week if the food was good. For example, when your on a cruise ship, good food, 24 seven, you let yourself go.
Unfortunately, Jennie whispered ( so as not to be overheard and offend) the food is NOT good and there is way too much. She started listing a typical day and I made her stop so I could take notes.
Breakfast: Porridge that looks like cream of wheat but tastes like crap unless you put tons of sugar in it. Sour Milk. Four pieces of buttered " toast" ( not made in toaster) eggs cooked in oil, french fries, and fried tomatoes.
Lunch is at school, but when they are home, it's two NOT Oscar Meyer, Bologna sandwiches with tons of mayo ( I didn't ask how that was kept cold, so I will have to ask ) Tea
After school snack: french toast ( very strange)
Dinner: Huge Polish sausage, pap ( corn mash type thing) heaped in a huge pile on plate with some kind of spinach type vegetable on top.
After dinner snack or desert: Popcorn with weird season salt.
Apparently dinner is around 8:00 pm. and bed time is around 8:30 pm.
She said all the food is lukewarm, due to the fact that they only have one burner so you can only cook one thing at a time.
The rural homestay mom is apparently fat.
I don't understand how you can be both poor and fat. I think I would rather have a flush toilet and TV. rather than two not real Bologna sandwiches.
Admittedly I am not even close to being a skinny minnie myself, but that's because I can afford to be fat. I have a flush toilet ( more than one in fact) and I have electric and several TV's. I even have Cable, a DVD player and DVR. This actually encourages me to eat a lot. If I were poor however, I think I would be thin.
I also feel bad that no one has told the poor, fat, homestay mom, that eating late at night is bad, especially right before bed time.
And it's not like they are eating in front of the TV. I don't get it.
Thankfully, Jennie is only there for a week. Now when she goes back to the other homestay house, I don't think she will feel bad not cleaning her plate. After all they have a refrigerator for left overs, and Jennie has been there long enough to tell the mom, it's not cool to stuff your face in America.
Unless of course you have already enjoyed being thin in your youth, as I have, and now think you deserve to just let go.
And like I said, you have to be able to afford it. It's hard for me to feel bad for the poor welfare moms who weigh 5,000 pounds, but now I know that's not unique to America.
I have to give my kid credit though. I could NEVER eat something I don't like. I couldn't force myself, and I would throw up if I did. I may be chunky, but I have my standards when it comes to food. And Pap is definitely OUT.
I bet she never thought she would long for the yucky bathtub, but I think she is missing her "normal" homestay house.
I will let you know when she has updated again so you can read the rural homestay stories yourself.
Till then, I am going to make myself some healthy Kraft Mac and Cheese, and call it a night.
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